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Originally Posted by EverybodysFool

how do you guys make friends? like you approach them and introduce yourslef? start a convo?

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You just said it buck-o

Sarah

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Originally Posted by mudweiser

You just said it buck-o

Sarah

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Lol

It's okay everyone has a brain relapse once in a while. ;)

Sarah

Hey mudweiser, do you know on Facebook if there is a way to delete more than one post a time? I'm deleting all my post by my ex and its taking forever -_-

No sorry. I wouldn't waste my time deleting everything though. It'll get to her ears and it'll seem like your so hurt that you need to block her out.

Man up and move on. Delete pictures of you and her if you want- but keep group pictures.

Make sure you block her though so you don't see her on friend's list and she doesn't see you.

Sarah

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Originally Posted by mudweiser

No sorry. I wouldn't waste my time deleting everything though. It'll get to her ears and it'll seem like your so hurt that you need to block her out.

Man up and move on. Delete pictures of you and her if you want- but keep group pictures.

Make sure you block her though so you don't see her on friend's list and she doesn't see you.

Sarah

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I did. Im starting to move on. Nc for 5 weeks already but it still hurts every now and then.

Of course it does. Breaking up is hard to do.

You'll do fine kid,
Sarah

Hey amhd, my ex broke up with me for a while now because she wanted to be with another guy. I have been in NC for like a month now. I kind of just disappeared from her life. I know I shouldn't be feeling this, but I'm a nice guy and I feel like it might be a little unfair for her that I just disappeared. I feel like it's a little unfair for her not to let her know. Although it seems like she doesn't care at all because she doesn't even try to contact me. I am never breaking NC, but I just feel a little guilty. She didn't care about my feelings and I shouldn't but I consider peoples feelings, yes even my ex after she cheated me. I am never going to break NC. I just felt like she has the right to know. I think she gets the message since I just NC for so long. Hmmmm weird I think I just answered my own question. Lol

Do you guys have any input?

Just keep going with NC. Exes are a waste of time and energy. Don't even think about the ex. Exes are dumb.

She broke up with you. End of story. There's no reason for you to give her a report on your status. (I don't know what NC is, but this is true no matter what it is. Please explain it, though.)

Consider the possibility that you want a reason to contact her. Maybe you miss her a little.

Give it up. Let her go.

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Originally Posted by taoplr

She broke up with you. End of story. There's no reason for you to give her a report on your status. (I don't know what NC is, but this is true no matter what it is. Please explain it, though.)

Consider the possibility that you want a reason to contact her. Maybe you miss her a little.

Give it up. Let her go.

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NC is no contact taoplr!! And YES NEVER BREAK NC NO MATTER WHAT!! It only brings more pain in your life that you shouldn't have and it ll be hard to move on

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Originally Posted by taoplr

She broke up with you. End of story. There's no reason for you to give her a report on your status. (I don't know what NC is, but this is true no matter what it is. Please explain it, though.)

Consider the possibility that you want a reason to contact her. Maybe you miss her a little.

Give it up. Let her go.

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already have and already did. There's still some feelings lingering but I think its normal. Nc = no contact.

does anyone else ever feel guilty just disappearing from their ex's life without letting them know? I mean I shouldn't but I still do. I guess I'm just too nice?

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Originally Posted by EverybodysFool

does anyone else ever feel guilty just disappearing from their ex's life without letting them know? i mean i shouldnt but i still do. i guess im just too nice?

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Yeah, I'm going through the same thing now. I feel guilty never speaking to her, but hey, they left us, right? If they wanted us in our lives they wouldn't have broken up with us. Can't have it both ways.

Its so human, and therefore normal, to have all kinds of weird feelings after a break up.

That's the main reason for NC, to give yourself a chance to deal with those feelings so you can heal.

Hey guys, I think I'm ready to get out there now after the breakup. Problem is I don't have much friends and I would like to have some. How do I meet new friends and where can I? T.T