I'd like to point out that a lot of the people that post on this board are being lead on, teased and toyed with. They are obviously not clueless because they are seeking answers. Most of the time they are arguing with you because they want to be convinced. I don't see a lot of posts with "she said it's over and doesn't want to speak with me". I see "She still comes over" or "he calls me every day". As an observer it's easy to tell someone to get out of that situation but when you are in it, it's so much harder to see.

Sometimes I find myself getting really frustrated with someone's thick headedness and stubbornness and I keep have to repeat myself. I guess I just seemed to like to help people and return the favour. To be honest when I was new here, I was exactly the same with all the questions but I'm not as thick headed as some people here. I guess inexperience does play a role in some cases. =P

I will be the first to admit I was fairly stubborn when I first came to this board... I wasn't just born good at giving advice, experience has taught me a lot.

If any of you had any idea how many times I sit at my desk banging my head on the monitor, well, you'd get the white jacket for me!

I have a theory. For those of you that are saying we have to be patient, kind, understanding, well, I was when I first got here, but after over 5000 posts, you, it gets old.

How many times do you have to tell someone to go to No contact, stick to no contact, do it, do it, do it and then they argue with you? I didn't offer you advice, you asked for it, either take it or ignore it, don't come and argue with me!

How about the pregnancy questions, those are my personal favorites. Pee on the monitor, I'll have your result for you after you computer stops smoking! :(

The fact is, we have stickies, they deal with No contact, how to tell if you're pregnant, etc. etc. The majority of the questions asked could be answered by reading the bloody sticky, or looking at others posts.

I understand, everyone thinks that their story is different, unique and they want talk about it. Fine, no problem, but get your head out of your arse and listen to what we are saying. Could it be that we give the advice we give because we've been there done that? No way! What a concept.

Okay, now I'm ranting.

KC, just call the ex, don't stop until she answers! ;)

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I will be the first to admit I was fairly stubborn when I first came to this board...I wasn't just born good at giving advice, experience has taught me a lot.

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You mean to say you're not stubborn now? Hmmmm. :p;)

The ex is dating someone else right now, so I don't think a phone call will do it... something more drastic is in hand... :cool:

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The ex is dating someone else right now, so I don't think a phone call will do it...something more drastic is in hand...:cool:

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Sing to her under her window in the moonlight. Bring flowers and chocolate. Or, um, you could go out with HC, I believe she's currently single. :cool:

I should really start a matchmaking thread. :D

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The ex is dating someone else right now, so I don't think a phone call will do it...something more drastic is in hand...:cool:

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Ooo... I know!!

Hire a Mariachi band, one of those humongous blow-up gorilla monster things that is holding a sign that says "I'll LOVE YOU FOREVER," rent some clowns, and buy a HUGE trampoline. Park all of these on her doorstep and refuse to leave until she agrees to marry you. :D That will work. Shows your dedication, man!

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Or, um, you could go out with HC, I believe she's currently single. :cool:

I should really start a matchmaking thread. :D

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Or... that works... ;)

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rent some clowns

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Clowns are evil! :eek::(

I bet Joe's reading this thread and hitting his head on his desk saying "what happend to my thread"

http://sodaracq.ifa.rm.cnr.it/HtmlHelp/HeadBang.gif

::giggles::

Sarah

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Sing to her under her window in the moonlight. Bring flowers and chocolate. Or, um, you could go out with HC, I believe she's currently single. :cool:

I should really start a matchmaking thread. :D

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lol some people just might take it seriously =P

you should alty start a match making thread, you have one success story so far =P

Thread got jacked!!

You got thread-jacked!

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Thread got jacked!!!

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Sorry. :o

It's a disease, KP gave it to me. I blame him! :(

Forgive me Joe?

I'll go back into my corner now.

:: hangs head in shame and slinks back to corner::

lols thread did get jacked =P I

:DYou almost had me Joe,:p but I knew Alty was lurking just waiting for me to stick my head out of my cave. :rolleyes:Then WHAM, her and ger buddy Starbuck, :eek:gotta watch them. HEHEHEHE, nice try but I ain't buying.:cool:

What's a white jacket guys? O_O

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Whats a white jacket guys? O_O

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A straight jacket Noney.

Thanks survivor07 for always helping me through the difficult times =P couldn't do it without you! XD