Ask Me Help Desk - My friends and I have had a fallen out

I'm glad to see that you are moving on along well without those friends. That's a good deal, €150 is not bad considering you thought you would lose the whole deposit.

The question about the visa should be asked in this section: Visas & Passports - Ask Me Help Desk.

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Originally Posted by I wish

I'm glad to see that you are moving on along well without those friends. That's a good deal, €150 is not bad considering you thought you would lose the whole deposit.

The question about the visa should be asked in this section: Visas & Passports - Ask Me Help Desk.

Thank you so much that's a great help! :)

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Originally Posted by alana1xxx

thank you so much thats a great help!! :)

However, your best bet is to contact the US Embassy or the US Consulate nearest to you. They should be able to provide you with all the information that you need.

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Originally Posted by I wish

However, your best bet is to contact the US Embassy or the US Consulate nearest to you. They should be able to provide you with all the information that you need.

Oh Okay that probably would be the better thing to do I don't have much time as I'm booking the flight for the end of may! I'm so spur of the moment I can't wait to get out of here and leave all these probs behind! Thank you for that it will help me on my journey :D

OK so update!. yesterday this girl called me out of the blue asking me how my weekend went and all I was answering her and chatting back but I could hear the "disappointment" in her voice as in she is still "mad at me " the conversation went on for about 5 minutes then she said she had to go but would call me in the next couple of days to meet up for a chat!. I have very mixed feelings about this because I know I have don't nothing wrong and shouldn't be made feel like I'm going to get in trouble or patronized when and if I meet her!

I have been doing really well over the last couple of weeks I'm growing up and getting on with my life I have my tickets booked to boston for June 1st and everything sorted out and now this is like a punch in the stomach again, its like she thinks she has the right to call me and lay on a guilt trip of me being the "bad one" and her trying to sort the argument out because she is more "mature" when all the time I was trying to call her when the argument 1st happened she didn't have the decency to answer the phone to me I mean I still don't even know what the hell happened that night and to be honest I don't want to know I have been hurt enough by the hole thing at this point,

Anyway sorry if I'm rambling on I just don't know what to do now should I meet her and call it quits or is this all a part of growing up and moving on?

Thanks in advance

Hey alana1xxx! Sounds like you are still very affected by the turn of events, but I'm glad to hear that you are making so much progress.

It does not seem like you are mentally prepared to confront your old friends again. After a 5 minute conversation you are deeply affected and confused. What would suck more is if all the progress you've made goes down the drain because of one get-together.

I know this sounds harsh, but I think it's better for you to continue making progress and continue avoiding them. If you really want to see them again, I think the best time is after you come back from Boston. You wouldn't want to see them, make you feel down again and then ruin your trip from the beginning.

At least after Boston, you will have a lot of time and space away from them and you will continue growing and moving on. Then when you come back, you will probably be very well-recovered.

Let us know if you need more help.