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  • Mar 19, 2009, 12:36 PM
    Romefalls19

    Stop making new topics
  • Mar 19, 2009, 12:36 PM
    ZoeMarie

    I've noticed you have a lot of threads regarding this same girl. We are definitely here to help you, but in order to get over her you're going to have to stop answering the phone when she calls. Just leave her alone. It will give you time to heal and save you some money. It sounds to me like you were too good for her. She doesn't deserve you.
  • Mar 19, 2009, 12:39 PM
    richboyjohnson

    You right I just have to let go, thanks so much
  • Mar 19, 2009, 12:40 PM
    richboyjohnson

    You right, I'm letting go, even though I love her I'm leaving for good
  • Mar 19, 2009, 12:42 PM
    ZoeMarie

    You're welcome! Hang in there. I don't know how long ago you two broke up but you'll find someone who treats you the way you deserve to be treated. Just take some time now to have fun with friends, take up a new hobby, join a gym, things like that.
  • Mar 19, 2009, 12:44 PM
    richboyjohnson

    Okay I already do that, thanks so much for your time, it helped me a lot, because I did not know what I was gone do. But I already know I should have been let go, but I judt didn't now I know its time.
  • Mar 19, 2009, 12:46 PM
    ZoeMarie

    not a problem. That's what we're here for. =)
  • Mar 19, 2009, 12:47 PM
    richboyjohnson

    Yep when, she call I'm just not gone answer anymore, I'm tired of getting treated like I isn't , I deserve better, I been too good to put up with her .
  • Mar 19, 2009, 12:48 PM
    Alty

    Like Zoe said, time to move on. Go to no contact, stick to that. Go out, meet new people, someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. This girl is a cold fish, throw her back into the water.
  • Mar 19, 2009, 06:51 PM
    unspeaken21

    She is jealous and insecure.. she probably thinks one of those girls likes you, and she might be right..
    Girls are sneaky, it wouldn't be a surprise if one of them was trying to win you over. And most likely your not noticing it, but your girl is because she knows how girls think..

    But still, sounds like she is jealous and insecure...
  • Mar 19, 2009, 06:57 PM
    unspeaken21

    Hey, do you know if she was a virgin.. (im now to your threads so I don't know much)... because if she was a virgin then maybe she was saving herself for marriage because that can be a strong motivation to not have sex...
  • Mar 19, 2009, 07:24 PM
    unspeaken21

    Basically she is using you... she knows you still have feelings for her so she uses it to her advantage to make you do things for her...

    Seriously, she thinks you will be always there for her..

    My opinion, you should stand up to yourself and leave her.. because her true character is the person she is after she gets what she wants...
  • Mar 19, 2009, 07:39 PM
    dsmhero1280
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by unspeaken21 View Post
    basically she is using you... she knows you still have feelings for her so she uses it to her advantage to make you do things for her...

    Seriously, she thinks you will be always there for her..

    My opinion, you should stand up to yourself and leave her.. because her true character is the person she is after she gets what she wants........

    I agree...
  • Mar 20, 2009, 08:47 PM
    talaniman

    Haven't learned to say NO, yet have you?
  • Mar 22, 2009, 02:59 PM
    unspeaken21

    Hey richboyjohnson...
    Im sorry but posts number 31 and 32 were not meant for this thread.. Im not so sure how they got on this..

    Anyway.. it seems like you know what you have to do.. so I hope your doing it...

    Its good to see you got some strength in you and know what's right..
    Take care
  • Mar 22, 2009, 03:13 PM
    Alty

    Unspeaken, all his threads were merged as they all discussed the same topic. As a result, all answers to the threads where merged as well.

    Hope that clears it up. :)
  • Mar 25, 2009, 07:10 AM
    unspeaken21
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    Unspeaken, all his threads were merged as they all discussed the same topic. As a result, all answers to the threads where merged as well.

    Hope that clears it up. :)

    Yes it does! Thanks:)



    Richboyjohnson I hope your doing fine..
    Take care

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