Ask Me Help Desk - Is she a cheater or not?

Just to update, I got some suspicius emails today, with links, that I know is trojan, then I got another email named with sexual words slangs, the text was "let me know"
Then after one hour I got one email from her, after one week NC, she just said that she found a nice place with some stuff that I would really like it...

What do you guys think? Im so confuse...

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Originally Posted by Flashpitstop

Just to update, i got some suspicius emails today, with links, that i know is trojan, then i got another email named with sexual words slangs, the text was "let me know"
then after one hour i got one email from her, after one week NC, she just said that she found a nice place with some stuff that i would really like it...

What do you guys think? Im so confuse...

I have no clue about the email Trojans.Do you get things like that often?
Is her friend a hacker?

I would say that if you believe you can trust this girl,than you have to do what you feel is right.

I think her past actions look suspicious.They were two glasses on her nightstand.Remember that when you feel getting dragged in again.

Perhaps you answer some need of hers that she is using you for.

Maybe she wrote to see if you will be there if the friend does not work out.

All the speculation in the world isn't going to change what appear to be her cheating.

You have gone a week,you should continue to move on.
Just my opinion.

I think you should re read all the posts on this thread. A reminder of why you were here and all the answers and help you received. Read over everything, then decide what is the best option for you.

I agree with the above. Continue the no contact and move on.. Opinion as well.

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Originally Posted by artlady

I have no clue about the email Trojans.Do you get things like that often?
Is her friend a hacker?

I would say that if you believe you can trust this girl,than you have to do what you feel is right.

I think her past actions look suspicious.They were two glasses on her nightstand.Remember that when you feel getting dragged in again.

Perhaps you answer some need of hers that she is using you for.

Maybe she wrote to see if you will be there if the friend does not work out.

All the speculation in the world isn't going to change what appear to be her cheating.

You have gone a week,you should continue to move on.
Just my opinion.

I don't get that often, but this week I got some strange emails, that I never subscribe for, and today, that 3 emails, including her email, with no sense text, telling me about that place? What is she thinking? That she can fix all fight being so fake and haven't any adult talk before?
Im moving on...

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Originally Posted by Jesushelper76

I think you should re read all the posts on this thread. A reminder of why you were here and all the answers and help you received. Read over everything, then decide what is the best option for you.

I agree with the above. Continue the no contact and move on.. Personal opinion as well.

Yes I did read all many times... I'm just moving on now, I don't want play that kind of games, or being a child ever... Sounds a bit crazy how she acted sending that last email... without any regret...

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Im moving on.

Good for you!
There is a ton of advice on here to help you through that.
I would love to hear an update if you are so inclined.

Let us know a month from now how fantastic you are doing!

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Originally Posted by artlady

Good for you!
There is a ton of advice on here to help you through that.
I would love to hear an update if you are so inclined.

Let us know a month from now how fantastic you are doing!

Thanks Lady, I was kind of scared with those emails, sounds like someone trying to access my PC with that trojans, and also the second email named with sexual slangs and the last email from her one hour after telling me about a place that she know I would like to go? Im not sure, if the hacker can get my informations if I respond the emails from her... Its kind crazy! But I'm not going to respond any more email from her, its sounds like BS again, I'm going to keep away from that... Early conclusions? I really don't know anymore... trust is gone... moving on... I ll update after a while heal... how I'm going! :)