Eddpad, I think opposites not only attract but have a lot to offer one another. In many ways being with someone totally different than you lets you see events and people in with a different set of eyes. It also gives both parties something to discuss and keeps the conversations going because your offering two different viewpoints instead of always saying, "I agree."

Please though quit questioning yourself, and more importantly quit questioning her. By questioning her if your good enough your only putting the idea in her head that your not. And this is a little different answer but date her and see what happens. Maybe you date for a couple months or a couple years and break up. Maybe you'll last forever. Who knows, but your never going to get there if you keep slamming on the breaks before you start your journey.

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Originally Posted by chuff

Eddpad, I think opposites not only attract but have a lot to offer one another. In many ways being with someone totally different than you lets you see events and people in with a different set of eyes. It also gives both parties something to discuss and keeps the conversations going because your offering two different viewpoints instead of always saying, "I agree."

Please though quit questioning yourself, and more importantly quit questioning her. By questioning her if your good enough your only putting the idea in her head that your not. And this is a little different answer but date her and see what happens. Maybe you date for a couple months or a couple years and break up. Maybe you'll last forever. Who knows, but your never going to get there if you keep slamming on the breaks before you start your journey.

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chuff-
Had to spread the wealth but I totally agree with what you've said.
eddpad-
Dating should be fun and about fun, so quit with the questioning especially of yourself and get with the good times. Stop thinking so much negative and see if you can have a good time and show this lady a good time. I think she would appreciate it greatly

All my life I have heard the expression, Opposites attract.

You may be different on the surface, as how you talk to others and interact and how you choose to express yourself through words. The important issues are the true core of a person. The two of you may be quite a bit alike. You may have the same interests, morals, goals, thoughts and feelings toward many things. That is what brought you together and will keep you together.

My hubby and I on the surface are very different. I am social, positive, always happy and bubbly, never see the bad in anyone. He can be cynical and sarcastic and doesn't have a lot of patience with most people. We are both loving, caring good people. We want the same things out of life, we have the same interests and same beliefs. We can talk for hours. On the surface others see us as opposites, but those who know us and see the real us understand.

If the two of you can spend 2 hours on the phone and not be bored, that is a good sign. It is not like you could do it everyday of your life. To have that much in common that the conversation can go on that long without one of you getting bored says a lot. My guy and I became best friends first and one day he looked at me and said I have totally fallen in love with you.

Opposites can balance one another out, as long as there is common ground. You worry for nothing. Believe her when she says she likes you. You like her and she is different.