Ask Me Help Desk - Long distance relationship

All right! I have social skills! And if I don't want to talk about what ruined my reputation, I won't talk about it!
And we don't just use email and such, which is what I'm sure a few of you are thinking. We talk on the phone, and we use web cams, and just about anything else that works. So I would like to know, how my relationship with her, or any of my internet buddies are fictitious?(That was aimed at you kctiger)

Try going to dinner, or sharing a walk on the beach, or holding hands watching the stars. Smelling her perfume, or hair (or farts, for that matter ) very difficult over the net. In humans, we do have non=verbal communications, and body language also. You can't wet her up in a playful way. I could go on, and on, about the human contact that is shared between partners, (sex? ) that distance and the INTERNET can never replace. Even though I fell in love with my now wife, of more than 30 years, over the phone, but I did get to take her places, and do things that we enjoyed, as we got to know each other.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Try going to dinner, or sharing a walk on the beach, or holding hands watching the stars. Smelling her perfume, or hair (or farts, for that matter ) very difficult over the net. In humans, we do have non=verbal communications, and body language also. You can't wet her up in a playful way. I could go on, and on, about the human contact that is shared between partners, (sex? ) that distance and the INTERNET can never replace. Even though I fell in love with my now wife, of more than 30 years, over the phone, but I did get to take her places, and do things that we enjoyed, as we got to know each other.

Well you know what? One day, when we are both ready, and can do so, we will see each other in person, and we will do all of that. And more. So with utmost respect to yourself, I am not going to take your advice. I'm happy, with what we have, and I do not want any other. And with that, I am ignoring any further advice from this site. You've all been a great help, both the ones who criticized, and supported. See you around then.

I think you really miss the point here. Most of us just want you to balance your life with other things besides her, that's just a healthy way to live.

Good luck with whatever you do!