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Casual is one thing, ignoring a person is another. I am second guessing my decision now, because I miss him

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His actions are crystal clear, he doesn't have time for you.

Your actions should be clear also, YOU DON'T HAVE TIME FOR HIM. The rest is you over thinking, and second guessing yourself.

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Originally Posted by bella_2009

hi, ). One explanation you would find in the book - 'men are like rubber bands' - when they get too close to a women they need to pull away for a while and re-connect with themselves. then then spring back. us, women, are of course completely shocked by this behavior because we do not have this need.

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This book was published? I disagree that only men do this, both men and women do it, and it seems more common in women doing this especially in this forum. I call it the "i need to find myself crap". I usually want to say "hey look idiot , there u are, i found you"
Oh you want to find yourself as in remember who you ARE. You are a product of your parents. A result of your past and a part of each one of the people who you hang around with. You complete them somehow as they also complete you. A simple example, you could be the evil they seek in their life as they are the good you seek in your life. Balance

Ok, so we broke up, I didn't contact him, and I moved on. It's been a month since we've talked, and yesterday I got an email from him saying that we haven't talked in a while and he wanted to know how I was. What does he want, and is he trying to mess with me?