Ask Me Help Desk - What Do Guys Hate in a Girl ?

When a girl conntinues to test me over and over...

Oh I forgot to mention the top pet peeve for me: personal hygiene.
Lack of it is a deal breaker for sure.

My personal #1 pet peeve is moodiness.

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Originally Posted by Krs

Right ok...

My comments re your pointers chuff ;).

1. I dont lie to my hubby, if you LOVE someone you dont lie, its a simple as that.
2. Most of the times when a women complains, there a reason why we do, besides women are hormonal and men just dont understand that :)
3. stupidity - same goes for men too!
4. Games - Vice Versa ;)
5. Women like to listen... men dont understand that.
6. same as men
7. same as men too
8. there's ALWAYS a reason.... but as i said above... men dont always understand us.
9. Men expect gifts too. But the trick is - expect nothing of no one.
10. Well if any women does that then she aint worthed ;)

I don't think Chuff was necessarily claiming that all women possess all of these traits. He was simply elaborating on traits that he dislikes, which was the point of the original question. I've known my share of women who possess some or all of these traits and it is quite exasperating to have to deal with. Also, I'm sorry but I don't buy that "hormonal" stuff ; I've heard it enough times before but it just doesn't fly. Remember. Men have hormones too (it's called testosterone) but if a man ever tried that excuse he'd be laughed right out of town. As for men not understanding why women start arguments (in reference to #8), perhaps some communication would go a long way towards fostering understanding. However, the one who opens the can of worms, i.e. starts the argument has to bear the responsibility for initiating the communication. If there's a reason then I have a right to know why ; otherwise, don't waste time starting an argument with me!

I have to agree about the "hormonal stuff!!!!!!"

Women get PMS and men get HE MS. It has been proven that men have "cycles" too. Girls if you know it is coming then just deal with it. I know I do and I know many women who do. It is just a part of life we have to contend with.

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Originally Posted by s_cianci

I don't think Chuff was necessarily claiming that all women possess all of these traits. He was simply elaborating on traits that he dislikes, which was the point of the original question. I've known my share of women who possess some or all of these traits and it is quite exasperating to have to deal with. Also, I'm sorry but I don't buy that "hormonal" stuff ; I've heard it enough times before but it just doesn't fly. Remember. men have hormones too (it's called testosterone) but if a man ever tried that excuse he'd be laughed right out of town. As for men not understanding why women start arguments (in reference to #8), perhaps some communication would go a long way towards fostering understanding. However, the one who opens the can of worms, i.e. starts the argument has to bear the responsibility for initiating the communication. If there's a reason then I have a right to know why ; otherwise, don't waste time starting an argument with me!

I know that, in fact in page 2 if I'm not mistaken you can see that we joked around about it.

Personally, ( I prob will get attacked now ) but when men say they don't buy it - hormonal stuff.. well that's when I come to the conclusion that some men don't understand women, women are a complicated breed (sometimes). I know men have hormones too, but women suffer more.
Men don't understand when women ovulate, and when we have periods, it's a long cycle, and lots goes on in us ;)
In fact when its my cycle, my husband usually just ignores me... to be honest it's the best therapy for me when I'm like it.

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Originally Posted by wanaknow

Soooooooo Guys ... tell me what do you hate in your PERFECT Girl ??

'n what do you Love as well ?

Hello wanaknow: From my perspective as a male the small things can be the most anxiety producing and it can take time before the heat of the relationship normalizes and gives one a clear view of the small things. Not long ago I read the results of a survey (extensive) and # 1 on the list of things males disliked in a female was GUM CHEWING. Sorry but that's the truth.