You disappear from their lives, and let them wonder "what happened"?

DUMP him! A.S.A.P If he ask, tell him that he's cheap for not treating you well.

Wow... yeah, I have to agree with everyone, dump him. It's not even a matter of being cheap, he's just an inconsiderate jerk.

I'd tell him why you are dumping him, though, there are people that don't understand that their behavior is not acceptable. Not saying it's your job to "fix" him, but in the future he may change and reflect on this experience and learn from it.

I dumped him earlier today and told him that... we think of relationships differently and I like a guy who shows affection and is romantic. And he isn't that :)

Good for you

Hey hollister,
At least you found out what he was like v early in the relationship and so take that as a positive note! I am sure you will find someone way better- I mean seriously for a partner not to be prepared for V day- is well stupid!

Good on you!

Props for getting rid - not spending your valentines day for such a ridiculous reason and not even making up for it is unheard of. Obviously not someone to spend the rest of your life with.. let alone another minute

I agree with all of you! Thanks everyone! :)