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Originally Posted by neverme

Look, as I'm sure you know, all bets are off when your talking to someone about their kids.

It cannot be easy for him to deal with animosity between you and his ex. I don't doubt that it's easy for you either, don't misunderstand me.

I'm a bit torn to be honest. It sounds as though he is trying to pick fights really, how did the relationship with his ex end?

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She cheated on him.when we fight about the kids its usually about picking them up or dropping them off and its when and however she wants it to be whatever is good for her.even if I have something to do or planned

Was she controlling when they were together?

Are you less controlling?

It may be that your man needs to controlled in a way.