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Originally Posted by kiwi_flame

UPDATE!!!
Well i've told him about how i was feeling,but didnt mention about my friend cancelling the meeting.
He's not very impressed and that is to be expected as he said to me he was only meeting her and jumping in there to have sex.
I told him he knew i was feeling insecure,and he could of reassured me and made me feel secure about the whole situation.
So for now he's backed off..So not sure where from here now.
But i also realise well if he doesn't comeback then its not meant to be!

** Thank you all for your suggestions and replies**

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It only proves that he doesnt love you coz if he does, well, 1st you guys can always talk about it. Basically, that guy is looking for a sexmate not a partner in life...backing off proves it all. If he comes back, look for a greater reason why he's coming back. Don't look for love, it'l come to you.

NOW... thats scarey but also... maybe he is... I don't know. It's a good point really but we never discussed it.
So maybe worth while asking him if that was in mind... sex partner or life.. Never asked him ever that but will now..

How long have you been dealing with this guy?

Since Apr this year...

Better communication will always solve the issue. Open up! Whatever you have in mind tell him... take the risk of telling him... there's nothing wrong with that. And look into his eyes and listen to him, in the process, you will know his real feelings for you.It's better getting hurt than having regrets...

Yes very true Luvee... Only one way to solve :) Thanks

Yes, and start it immediately... so you won't be bothered anymore... coz pretty sure you're having sleepless nights hihihi... goodluck and godbless

Yes I was and not too bad now as I've aired my concerns to him however I'm just giving him time out and we are discussing tomorrow all areas that need addressing...
Thanks :)