Originally Posted by
ba9876
On one hand I would feel like a fool if Im accusing her of cheating when she did not. On the other her being with a new guy less than 2 weeks after she moved out of my place probably means that this was what she was always wanting to do regardless. So yep it is closure in any event. I think she actually tried to drive me to the end of my tether with her actions, so that I HAD to throw her out - so she didnt seem like the bad person in all of this... I know all I have is circumstancial evidence before relationship end, but there were so many red flags at this stage it would probably stand up in a court of law... anyway she will never admit cheating so the point is moot. And like you say it really doesnt matter - it is done and dusted
KC, thank you mate, your advice is as always totally correct, appricated and a big reality check on what has been a miserable day for me. I have read your threads and I see were were in a similar situ, I admire how youve came through this and only hope I can get to the point you are at ASAP. Ive certainly learned a good few (and harsh) lessons in life from this whole experience.
Anyway I have a couple of sports activities and a big night out organised for the weekend so hopefully I can concentrate on making me happy instead of continually thinking bout all this nonsense...