Cool, I get you... dotn worry so much. I have been trying to use everything you tell me Cat, I trust you! How do I go about giving her some space? Don't call her, even if she doesn't call me? I don't want her to think Im flaking out on her or anything... you know? I do see that we both need some time to let things soak in a bit, Im just not sure exactly how to go about it...