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Originally Posted by DJ28

errr im sorry that how it is really, but really the best way is to be honest and to tell him that its not about that.. if he can't deal with that or trust you that there is no one in the picture that really his own fault /problem.. trust really is a big part in a relationship anyway. but really if he can't deal with it then i mean ohh well its his prblem not yours. just tell him with all your heart that your being honest and if after that if he can't trust you then really tuff luck.

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Ok thanks I will let you know how it goes!

Good luck with everything!

Tell the truth, the whole truth. You're not leaving him for another man but still hoping to find another man in the future that you can love. I'm sure you wish the same for him too, let him know.
You've been together for a long time and since you were so young. People grow up, this sometimes means that they grow apart too. You don't have the same state of mind as you did 6 years ago. I'm sure he doesn't either. It's o.k. to grow, it's part of life. I'd lik to suggest that he deal with it but, I know, that's easier said than done, so one of you really need to move out, think about a roommate, it'll help with housing costs. Stop making excuses, move out, he gets a room mate, or have him move out you and you get one.
He'll get over it, it's better not to waste any more of each others time and energy. You said you can still be friends but if you keep up the charade and /or fighting than you might lose that as well.