Oohhhhhhhhh, I hate this feeling, I have been here doing all that I can not to call or text. Here goes,

I miss you sooooooooo much babe, even though I am not there, I hope that you are having a wonderful time, whatever you are doing. I wish you were with me

Merry Christmas to Crystal and my 2nd family and to all her loving dogs. By the way she just broke up with me 2 days ago. Lol a girlfriend for 5 years. And I'm going to be strong about it.

To my ex(es)

Thanks for the christmas wishes.

Stop calling/texting/emailing me. Seriously. It's been a year. Get over it. You lied to me. I will not get back with you.

Debdoes, but that's the point it was good and fun and lots of good things and memories came from it. But in the end it's kind of like a theme park... High admission for afew thrilling moments but behind every one of those is a lot of bordom. But guess what, even though you left, you will still go back to a new one somewhere else and you will make more good memories. Remember it's not about the destination or making things work but how you made the trip.

Also to JMW. New Years won't make any problems go away it's just changing a number. If you want to start fresh, start now at this minute when you read this message. It is a choice on whether you let those kind of things really get to you. It IS a cognitive choice to think about your ex so just stay distracted!

Last but not least to KCTiger I think we all know how hard that pesky brick wall is. But then again our fractured skulls heal and become stronger so I guess it's good in the long run.

Joe you're 100% right. Thanks for the advice. I was doing really good... but yesterday set me back somewhat. I know that this will pass soon. I have many plans over the next week with friends, so I know I will be OK. It just sucks that ANY of us have to go through this. But you know as they say "No Pain. No Gain". Granted I brought this round of pain on myself by still caring... but I definitely learned my lesson.

Thanks to all you guys and girls who are here for people who are going through these diffucult times.

Happy Boxing Day!

Dear _____,

Merry Christmas! I hope this year has been as happy for you as it has been for me. I am happy you found someone to drag to those Martha Stewart shows, buy you the expensive crap that got used for a week, and dealt with your own insecurities. This year was amazing for me! I met someone who loves me for the person I am, not who they pictures in a fairy tale book. Please stop calling and texting me about how this or that reminds you of us or me. If you feel the need to do so, please mail them to my new address at:

I don't care Blvd
Moving On, NJ 08505

P.S. Please tell your boyfriend to have his girlfriend stop texting me about starting a new relationship.

I realize the topic wAs in 2008. But never mind we're in 2012 and I feel the same as you people 4 years ago. So

Dear K I was thinking about you and thought I'd say hello! I hope you and your family have a wonderful holiday season... So Happy Holidays and all the best in the New Year!
Hope all is good:) I still can't understand why it didn't work out and why your always on my mind!

Dear S,
I will miss you forever and especially on this special occasion it's the first christmas without you and I can't believe you haven't even call or text. I feel bitter but a part of me knows that your on the NC because you can't stand to hurt me anymore. I will always love you. Merry christmas wish you the best and happy new year may you find love this year even though it will kill me. But God is good and he'll send me someone too;). Love love love forever Gia M.