Originally Posted by
a la king
I think my situation is a good example for all those people hoping and wishing their ex's would contact them for a reconcile.
When my ex and I broke up years and years ago i moved out and didn't say a SINGLE word to her for 1.5 years, aside from I think one stupid txt, that she ignored. As far as I knew she hated me.
Out of the blue she contacted me and we quickly continued our relationship after we realized we were stubborn and made mistakes that weren't worth the break-up. During our time apart we both dated other people and attempted to continue our lives, even thought i was miserable and she was too... or so she says.
And in the end, after growing more attached and making more of a life together (or so we thought) the second time around....we broke-up again. Making this round WAAAAAY worse than the first time because of the emotional investment and thinking "hey, i got a second shot..this must be REAL".
Splitting up is like breaking a fine piece of china. *If* you can reconcile and glue the pieces back together... the faint cracks from the repair never really go away.
Is it worth reconciling? That's for the individual to decide.. My verdict is still out on this as it's all very fresh.... but i think anyone reading this garble will see the answer.
