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Originally Posted by bobreid

She just doesnt want to date me or be tied down. Exactly how i used to feel.

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Hmmm... repeat this to yourself a few times, and maybe reality will eventually hit. So, your plan, is to wait until she wants to date you, but until then, she will party it up and enjoy herself and do whatever she wants with whomever she wants. Good plan. That should be a good turnout for you... :rolleyes:

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She just doesnt want to date me or be tied down. Exactly how i used to feel.

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I agree with KC, are you waiting for her to change her mind??

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Hmmm....repeat this to yourself a few times, and maybe reality will eventually hit. So, your plan, is to wait until she wants to date you, but until then, she will party it up and enjoy herself and do whatever she wants with whomever she wants. Good plan. That should be a good turnout for ya... :rolleyes:

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Well do you have any other plans? Your really misinterpreting this. She is not the type to go out and hook up with other guys and stuff like that. I just meant that for the next couple days she is in NYC partying with her girlfriends. She left today and as soon as she left I got a text.

I believe the other plans would be to leave her alone. Get over her because she doesn't want to be with you. If she did, she would be

Wow everyone on this site is such a pessimist. Forget I even asked. I'm not going to just go off into the night without even trying to make this work. Its better to try and fail then do nothing and fail.

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Originally Posted by bobreid

wow everyone on this site is such a pessimist. forget i even asked. im not gonna just go off into the night without even trying to make this work. its better to try and fail then do nothing and fail.

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But you have tried and is not working. If you want to send her a present go ahead. But you can not change the way she feels about you. Your best bet would be to cut off cold turkey. MAYBE when she gets a chance to miss you then MAYBE she will come back. :confused:

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Originally Posted by bobreid

wow everyone on this site is such a pessimist. forget i even asked. im not gonna just go off into the night without even trying to make this work. its better to try and fail then do nothing and fail.

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You mean "try and fail and try and fail?" I don't see how that's going to benefit you.

Didn't get what you wanted to hear, huh? Sorry, about that. Its only advice, up to you, what you do.