I feel like I need to call her now. I am totally unproductive at work now. Thanks Rome! :)

Seems to me that she wants to tell you what's on her mind. It might not be anything bad so don't worry until you know what its about.

I wish I could update you guys on what is going on, as well as calm my rational right now.

Oh, word of advice! Googling "we need to talk" does NOT yield promising results, well unless you want your relationship to end.

Stop worrying :D! Patience is a virtue.. if she wants to end it, it wasn't meant to be..

With your quote on the bottom of your profile it sounds like you are quite ready for whatever is about to come your way... I've been googling lumps on the babies head and that's not got me anywhere.. so maybe don't really on Google to provide you with answers

Lol.. This is true... Just sucks I got the line at 12pm and I don't get home until 5

Ha ha Chrissaay, I know Google doesn't have all the answers but I sure wish it did. Would make things a lot less stressful in life

Yikes.. its well past 5pm here in England! Its nearly 7pm

So I finally texted her saying "I can't be kept on a string the way I am. If it's a personal matter then tell me, but if you are going to end it please tell me now.

She responded "No way am I ending it, I just really wanted to apologize in person for the way I have been treating you. You have been there for me all along and to take things out on you isn't fair to you. I'm sorry"

So for once, I get get all worked up for nothing. Thanks to everyone for keeping my head on straight and not letting me fly off the handle

Good news man! Good thing you didn't over react! :)

Lol Yea I know... I could have flipped out and sent a thousand texts and push her over her breaking limit. I simply stated how I felt the best I could without being aggressive and then just let it happen.

Whoever says this site doesn't have use after you healed is so wrong ha ha.

Awww G-Man... will be thinking of you!! Hope its nothing... Just assure her that you're not going anywhere, remind her of the special-ness that you two have, and listen to her. She's going through a lot of emotions now with this ex thing...

Here's hoping for the best!

Oops... answered before I read the thread... Phew!! :D Good!

Lol thanks Historian! I know she is going through a lot with this arseclown getting out. We have the girls to think about and it's stressful for both of us. We meet him Saturday and have already typed up the "rules" and holiday visitation, she wants it to be made clear to him that she wants nothing to do with him or his life other than about the girls. He tried texting her a few days ago about stuff she has been up to and she flat out said not to text her unless it's about the girls.

Good for her. She's being a good Mom. I'm proud of you for being there for her during all of this. And especially at Christmas... yuck. Keep that chin up. It will get better!

Rome - when you get home, be sure to say a quick sorry for considering the other possibility, when she brings up the other stuff.

Thanks everyone! And I will Wolf.. I can swallow my pride with the best of them lol

Good Luck Rome. I read a lot of your advice and it is always dead on. Hope everything turns out to be something not so bad and you both get through it.

Ha! I called it!

FAITH wins that one

I said that she would probable just say sorry for the way she was acting!

And hell yeah. You told her if your going to end it. End it now!

Way to be the Alpha male dawg ;)

And HA I got a REDI from dazt.

It was sound advice ;) thanks

Never had any worry that you would have dealt with whatever comes your way.

Glad it turned out great.