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  • Dec 7, 2008, 10:25 PM
    gnomes7

    Well, just thought I would let you guys know. I talked to her today, I knew already that it would be a mistake but I did anyway. Mainly so that what I said would always be in the back of her head. I've been right about a lot of things, I knew talking to her wouldn't change her mind on anything. Just open up her mind so she could see a door to get out of her world of false reality. I didn't say I miss you or anything like that, just gave her advice and basically subliminally told her everything that will happen. I thought maybe she would at least not continue on for too much longer. As in her getting hurt sooner instead of too much later, but I know she is going to get hurt. I know they won't work out, and she will end up miserable. But at least she will come out a stronger person? Or smarter.
    But yeah, I'm done trying to help her. I know for sure now that the only way for her to ever leave false reality is for her to become miserable.
    :)
  • Dec 7, 2008, 10:36 PM
    friend4u178

    Not your problem , let her deal with her own issue's.
  • Dec 8, 2008, 07:32 AM
    talaniman

    Forgive me for saying that the only truth to your post was the last sentence. The rest is your opinion, and none of your business.
  • Aug 21, 2009, 06:29 AM
    confused90
    I'm in the situation as you dude... it sucks... she lied to me and said she was talking to her sister but she was talking to her ex for like 4 hours and then forwarded all of their text messages... so I know how you feel

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