OK so I was just on stupid myspace, I am not a cyber "person" but I met this girl on there not far from were I live, and we been talkng for a while, and we have everything in common, like she is really picky, and I met everything that she wanted in a guy, we been talking and we were going to hang this week, she has full time job, and school, and cheerleading, we are both 18, now when we make plans it gets ed up, every time this week, its only been a week we been tlakin about it, and every time it gets screwed up, and yestorday I talked to her and she was calling me baby, and all that sweat stuff that I like, and I had to go and she said she would call me back later and she never did, and this morning she didn't call and she has been every morning, I know its probably no big deal because she has to use her dads phone because hers is broke, I just am so confused? I know this probably sounds CRAZY! Butt we have so much in common and when we talk we do nothing but laugh and she is so beautiful and everything, I'm sure she will call tonight hopefully, what do you guys think? Thanks

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You have only been broken up for a month, and you haven't given yourself a chance to heal enough. Sorry guy but your trying way to hard to have someone.

Take some more time for yourself, just you, and get some peace of mind, and learn to relax.

What do you think about meeting people on myspace? I met this girl on myspace and she is great! We have sooo much in common, we talk on the phone every night and in the morning when we get up, and she is coming over tonight, what do you guys think?

Myspace is a place to find and meet people.

You will get a better idea once you start spending time with her.

Are you concerned because you met her on myspace?

No not concerned, I was just wondering, we been wanting to hang out but every time we made plans something got screwed up, I am waiting for her to call now.

Well, if you don't have a problem with it... then go for it all the way!

Like I said, you will know more once you meet her if you would like to pursue things.

OK so, I met this wonderful girl over myspace, and we have not met yet, we keep trying so hard too, but keeps getting screwed up when we try too, and yestorday it got screwed up the fourth time we tried, because she hurt herself in cheer leading, WHICH I'm totally cool with I am very understanding and this whole time I did not even get a attitude with her and she cried because she felt bad, well today she called at 11:00a.m and said she wanted to go to the mall to get me a christmas present, and she said then she will come over, and she got my address for her gps, and I haven't heard from her sense and now its 10:40p.m, I just don't understand, I know she cares about me because she almost cries when she thinks I'm going to move on, and we have so much in common and we talk non stop on the phone be4 work and after, she said I was perfect for her, its just f'in with my head you know? What do you think? Should I worrie, I worrie a lot, she will probably call tomarrow morning, what do you think? Thank you so much..

Well let me see, she could be someone else playing games, laughing at how silly you are.

She could be a mom playing games

She would be a sex pervert that likes to stalk young boys.

Lol, that's not right. That's edd upp, I don't know because I have been talking to her a lot, and I don't know its just really weird because all the we have in common, and that I don't know, she took pics of herself and put them on there and t and like its not someone else, and drew pictures and sent them in the mail, I don't know, its just in weird because. Just talking to her I really care about her, we got really close, you probably wouldn't understand, lol

Really knowing and caring for someone you've never met in person? You're right I don't understand.

If this girl really wanted to come see you, she would have already.

Yeah I know it so confusing, we been talking sooo much for a while, like her myspace has me all over it and I don't know just reallly really weird? Its probably lame, but I don't care, how the hell do you meat good people then, online is stupid, in person, how do you meat new people, were?

Do you know for sure that she's single?

That's a very good point Kailee made.

Another thing. If you feel like you are being put on the back burner

Tell her that you don't like the way things are going
Because you sound fed up with it.

Talk to her in a calm way. And tell her that you feel you are being put 2nd to something else.
And that you don't need this typ of game playing in your life right now,
Don't be so nice that you get walked over.. show emotion
If something makes you angry or upset
Let her know. Not in a crazy smash the window way..

But in a normal calm way.. tell her. Hey this sucks or I don't like this.
Stand up for what you want in a relationship

Hope it works out for you

Regards

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You know, in all seriousness, after reading all of this you made me want "my space." You are being too anxious, too needy, too pushy! You are driving yourself crazy over these girls! You will only end up pushing them away with this approach, and you will end up hurt again.

It seems to me like you feel that if you aren't in a relationship, and some girl doesn't hang on your every word, and want to talk to you all of the time, that you feel lost as a person!

I think you need to take a time out. Get to know yourself. Learn to love yourself first, or you will never be happy with the way another girl treats you. Take a few steps back, and work on you.