Um, if all he is up too is hanging out the guys then what exactly is the problem with a 15 second phone call? I temporarily moved back in with my parents in my mid - twenties and if I was going to spend the night somewhere else or be home late I always called or texted so that they wouldn't WORRY about me. The girlfriend here NEVER expressed any issues with her boyfriend hanging out with his guy friends she just wants to be released from having to worry. This isn't just a fling or a casual relationship, he is in a (3) year committed relationship with her and they are living together! Someone tell me why under these circumstances a 15 second phone is too much to ask. To me this is simple easy to fix courtesy not an assault on the guys freedom