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  • Nov 3, 2008, 08:14 AM
    High Max

    Yeah, when you are in a RELATIONSHIP don't go to other girls! You want to work it out, at the same time not give up your power as a man, stand your ground and show assertiveness, but do not look weak.

    When dating, showing you are in demand can help, but don't flaunt it as if you are bragging or a player.
  • Nov 3, 2008, 08:26 AM
    Sweet_Guy23
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by High Max View Post
    Yeah, when you are in a RELATIONSHIP dont go to other girls! You want to work it out, at the same time not give up your power as a man, stand your ground and show assertiveness, but do not look weak.

    When dating, showing you are in demand can help, but dont flaunt it as if you are bragging or a player.

    Don't give up my power as a man?? Show assertiveness??
  • Nov 3, 2008, 09:28 AM
    Sweet_Guy23

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by High Max View Post
    Yeah, when you are in a RELATIONSHIP dont go to other girls! You want to work it out, at the same time not give up your power as a man, stand your ground and show assertiveness, but do not look weak.

    When dating, showing you are in demand can help, but dont flaunt it as if you are bragging or a player.

    Don't give up my power as a man?? Show assertiveness??
  • Nov 3, 2008, 10:19 AM
    kctiger

    It means that you be yourself. When two people meet they are individuals, but all too often when a relationship starts, one person starts to lose that 'individuality' and leans on the other person way too much.
  • Nov 3, 2008, 10:45 AM
    TrueFaith

    Tiger is right

    Don't lose yourself in the relationship
    Don't say YES to evertyhing
    Which I'm sure you did

    I know I wouldn't want someone that always agreed with me

    Having your own opinion and your own goals in life
    Adds so much spice
  • Nov 3, 2008, 10:58 AM
    Sweet_Guy23

    Yeah I understand... I definitely said yes to everything... even though sometimes I wanted to say no...
  • Nov 3, 2008, 11:01 AM
    TrueFaith

    We have all been there my friend :)

    God in my first relationship.

    I didn't even know who I was.

    I would get pushed around I would say yes to everything

    All out of some sick thing in my head.. thinking I should make her happy..
    In the end I just Pisst her off LoL

    But it's a leasson we learn the hard way sadly.
  • Nov 3, 2008, 01:32 PM
    SimpleguyJoe

    Haha that is so true, Truefaith...
  • Nov 4, 2008, 08:59 AM
    talaniman
    The more you grow, and learn about yourself, and love yourself enough to be happy wit who you are, you will attract those who want to share that happiness with you.

    Love 'em all, until someone stands out from the crowd.

    People who are happy with themselves, and know who they are, tend to be confident, and fun to be around.

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