Lol she knows I'm not getting her anything though. I just want to know what would be better for me and what I should do if I do go see her?

Your broke up, and not getting her anything, so what would be the point?

You don't sound that dissapointed either. What do you want to do? Have a good time, and go back to being an ex, or skip the whole thing, and go bowling??

Me I go bowling, let her get her own birthday date.

So this weekend my ex came home from college. We broke up because she said that she couldn't do the distance. I went o her houae and we hung out with all of our friends. It sucks sharing friend by the way so I cultivated some new ones. Anyway we would comnment at each other and I felt like we flirted a little. Right now I want to be her friend again but does anyone think we may ever get back together?:confused:

You need to get away. She broke up with you, and hanging around her isn't going to help you in any way. You are going to feel like she flirted with you for a long time if you keep seeing her. You have to remove yourself from the situation.

Chuff is right, AS ALWAYS. Just stay away, let your life begin with her not in it. She left you for a reason and you do not need to hook up with her while she is back it town just to go through it again when she goes back to school. Good Luck and God Bless

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but does anyone think we may ever get back together?:confused:

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If she goes back to school NO! What has changed? Her feeling for you are not the same as what you want, so don't dredge up the past, get over her, and enjoy your own life. Seeing her again stirs those old feelings up, don't they?

Why be with someone who does not want to be with you?

It is harsh and I know you don't want to hear this.
Do not be her friend OK. Because friendship is the last thing on your mind

You will just be hanging around waiting for the small chance that she might get back with you. And you will not be able to live your life!

Just take it as a brake. And move away from her.

Be strong man :)

Don't go it will set you backwards in terms of getting over her. You have made so much progress, don't see her and continue moving on