Well first the girl is confused and does not seem to know what she wants. If I were you, I would either just flat out tell her to please stop, or change your phone number and if it really comes down to it and she does move close to you either you need to move or not that it is really going to help but you can get a restraining order on her. Let her know how you feel.

Well I'd have to disagree with the above post. No need to tell her anymore than you already have.

Great call on cutting your friend short, and just let him know it isn't necessary for him to update you whenever he runs into her. And you're right, she is hoping this gets back to you... Its pretty common that ex's want news about the new and exciting things that have happened to them while without you to get back to you. You realize this, and I am sure you know that reaching out to her won't do anything more than boost her ego.

Take it from me, you are going to find out tidbits of info as time goes on, and it will hurt. But eventually each time will hurt less and less and take less time to get over. I am sure you will be feeling strong in no time. Just keep doing what you're doing my friend!

Thanks NorthernNiceGuy. Part of me does miss her, but I find it odd that I went from hearing from her often to not even hearing from her at all while she lives two blocks away from me. I have no intentions on reaching out to her at all. I am sure that she started rambling on just so it gets back to me.

Just a contrarian view.
It seems perfectly normal for someone who runs into an acquaintance to talk about whatever is new in their life, like a new apartment. I don't see any reason to ascribe ulterior motives to her. She has stopped trying to contact the OP.

SpyBorg, I'm sorry you are still mourning this relationship. It is not odd that she is not writing to you. You did not answer her notes and she has accepted that you do not want to be "friends." She is respecting that. Don't look for a complicated game in this where there probably is none.

Now is the time to look to the future.
Cheers,
asking

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Thanks NorthernNiceGuy. Part of me does miss her, but I find it odd that I went from hearing from her often to not even hearing from her at all while she lives two blocks away from me. I have no intentions on reaching out to her at all. I am sure that she started rambling on just so it gets back to me.

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Dear, don't worry about her motives, just go on with your life and look forward. In time, you'll not care one bit what she does or thinks - and then you won't miss her anymore either.

Go out and have a good time this weekend.. and come back when you feel a little down - it's all normal and you are doing just fine.

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You are all right. I have been down this road before, and I know what needs to be done. It just sucks going down this road again.

She texts you because she is alive