A stunning Chuff admission is about to happen but before it does let me address this.
We are not pals. Nor will I F off. I may be direct, and it may not sit well with you and you certainly have every right to tell me to F off but at the end of the day it's you I'm trying to help here. It's over and it's plain as day you are stuck on her. Now, I'm not going to tell you I've never been there, because I have but I'm not your enemy, I'm one of the guys trying to help you see what's going on because you clearly do not.
Okay I may have gone to far with the stalker comment and for that one I apologize. I was wrong about that.
Now, that being said, will you do me a favor? Reread your original post where you tell us you have been dating this girl for 60 days and every other post after that.
You are not a stalker in the sense you are following her around, but you are way to stuck on her for such a short period. You are stuck on her and you can't let go. You come off like you think way too much about her. You fell way to hard and way to soon. You wanted way too much and you wanted it way to soon. She wants nothing to do with you and it's clear as day and you just don't get it. You can direct your anger at me for that, but that's not my fault... that's your reality. I'm just telling it to you.
First you said nothing to set me off.
Second the argument that it had nothing to do with is lame, and always pops up when someone gets a reality lesson they don't like. You posted your situation on a public forum of which I am a member. When you put you situation out there you get a variety of answers. You don't have to like them, or who there coming from but don't try and brush off your issues by claiming I have nothing to do with them. I'd go so far as to say I have more to do with trying to correct your behavior then she does. At least I'm honest enough to address them. She just avoids you. I'm the one that has the courage to point out what's wrong with your behavior and it's your behavior that caused you this situation. If you want to keep going in circles go to Whywon'tshecallmewhenikeepcontactingher.com. If you want to take an honest look at what's going on you've come to the correct place.
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Here's a brick wall... let me insert my head
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You didn't speak for two weeks because she was ignoring you.
YOU DIDN'T SPEAK FOR TWO WEEKS BECAUSE SHE WAS IGNORING YOU.
If she was remotely into you, she would not have not talked to you for two weeks. Are you kidding me? That is your argument for not talking for two weeks? There was no break up definition? When she doesn't talk to you for two weeks that means she's not interested and that's the very definition of break up.
She has the need to be left alone and that's why she didn't contact you.
I was hoping we could get back to that. I'm getting tired of defining the obvious.
Well, I've already admitted stalker may have been to far. But I had my reasons. I read your posts and how you can't let go after a 60 day relationship.
I am not always right. I've been wrong before. I'll be wrong again. But I've been on this forum for over 2 years. You've been here for 2 weeks. I have over 2000 posts. You don't even have a 100. I've had people specifically email asking for my opinion away from the boards. I've had people tell me my advice is what got them turned around. I even had one person offer to send me money for helping him. You can not like my answers. You can not like me. But I will hold my credibility next to yours and what your doing any time.
I thought it was kind of funny myself.
Hey do me a favor. Send your ex girlfriend of 60 days the link for this topic. Ask her if she thinks the Slapshot or Chuff is the jerk off.
Guilty as charged!
You earn respect, and you have neither earned from you ex girlfriend of 60 days nor myself. I'm sure you heartbroken. Slapshot isn't this what really happened. Didn't you fall hard and fall quick for a girl and when that did not turn out the way you wanted you got desperate. You started over thinking everything, which in turn only made it worse. When that didn't work you came here and told your story. When you ignored the advice and continued harassing (not stalking and that's and accurate description) her she continued to ignore you. When that didn't work you posted some more nonsense. Then finally not being able to take it anymore someone of great wisdom not because he was born with it but sadly because he's been where you are spoke up and said, "KNOCK IT THE F OFF." Then because of YOUR inflated ego you couldn't handle it when someone didn't give you the same old answer you are accustomed to hearing you took out all your frustrations on a person who tried to get you to see the reality of this situation. You can direct your anger at me, but at the end of the day I'm not making every mistake imaginable with this woman.
She's not into you. It happens. It's happened to me more then I care to admit. There are 3 billion more of them out there. I'm truly telling you this as a guy who's been in your spot and despite how I come across I truly don't want to see you suffering because I know you are, but sometimes you just have to let it go. Consider yourself lucky, you didn't invest years, you invested months, it's over and you should give yourself permission to move forward. Now all I'm asking is that you learn from this and don't make the same mistake again and again.