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  • Sep 26, 2008, 08:31 PM
    Homegirl 50

    I thought you were probably 15 or so.
    Look you guys go from one person to the next, then back to the last person in no time.
    I suggest you talk to other girls but just be friends for a while. Stop hopping from one person to the next while you're still hurting or pinning for the last one.
    Learn how to be friends. Learn about yourself.
    None of you know about yourselves because you're too busy trying to hook up with the next person. And at what, 14-15 years old, you're in my opinion too young to be dating anyway.
  • Sep 26, 2008, 08:33 PM
    jj890

    Well Im NCing both of them now. So I guess it doesn't matter anymore right?
  • Sep 26, 2008, 08:40 PM
    Homegirl 50

    No, it does not matter unless you jump right into another relationship.
  • Sep 27, 2008, 08:38 AM
    jj890

    All right..
  • Sep 27, 2008, 06:15 PM
    Ks secretos

    Relationships like these suck! And life sucks right now but learn from this, don't give your heart to quickly... esp. to someone with butter fingers. Go out, try and find a hobby, DO SOMETHING to try and get your mind off her. When I broke up with my X of almost 4 years I felt completely CRUSHED, but I had to move on... The worst is losing your lover and your friend all at once, esp when they no longer care about you or your feelings but dude you'll make it!! (PS: Girls like your X saw you as a amazing person and trew the line "Never leave me" so that you can always be their rebound) Don't FALL 4 IT, you will heal... you'll be fine
  • Sep 27, 2008, 07:36 PM
    Homegirl 50

    I don't think she was using you. She told you she just wanted to be friends. So you be friends with her or you don't. The choice is yours.
    When did you start talking to her again? How much time has all of this happened in?
  • Sep 28, 2008, 09:44 AM
    jj890
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    When did you start talking to her again? How much time has all of this happened in?
    Hmm.. Couple Months Ago.. But we rarely talked, and I don't know how much time.
  • Sep 28, 2008, 06:17 PM
    Homegirl 50

    You guys just be friends, if not, leave it alone. You too are young, there will be plenty others in your life and her's too.
    Don't tie yourself down to one person this young. This is a time for growing and learning, not getting tangled up in relationships.
    I wish you well.
  • Sep 28, 2008, 06:51 PM
    jj890
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    You guys just be friends, if not, leave it alone. You too are young, there will be plenty others in your life and her's too.
    Don't tie yourself down to one person this young. This is a time for growing and learning, not getting tangled up in relationships.
    I wish you well.
    Thanks but, we are not talking anymore.. NCing I guess.

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