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  • Oct 6, 2008, 07:11 PM
    jvargas2008
    To be honest with you there is no way of stopping it cause my boyfriend does it to me and I'm pregnant with his child. I say there's no way cause he was in anger management and that didn't even help cause he was still abusing me. The only way anyone can make it stop is to leave but I guess that would make me a hippacret cause I still haven't left but my reasons are really fatal.
  • Oct 6, 2008, 07:54 PM
    Guidostern

    Kitty, you need to just leave... you have more to think about now than just yourself. Every time he does this to you, it not only causes you mental and physical trama, but trama to the baby that you're carrying... as well as your daughter. I will say this, one of my best friends was an abuser for a long time. The only way that this is ever going to change is if HE takes the effor to change it himself.

    There is nothing you can do to change this from your side. With my background, I have seen a few scenarios where the outcome is very bad... up to death. You don't want to put yourself, or your children through this. You need to do whatever you can to leave, or else this violence will continue.

    Stay strong, I know it hurts, but you deserve better... you deserve a man.. not this little boy.

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