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Originally Posted by Sweet_Guy23

Yea I hear. But you know, to be honest sometimes I tend to feel that I will never find someone as cool as she was, or as goofy, crazy, outgoing, and loving as she was (of course she was like this when everything was still good). You know?

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Same here.

My ex left me to go to her art school... and I saw her myspace about me was updated.
Apparently, she's made new friends who she thinks are her "best friends" cause they help her when she is too drunk to go back to her dorm room, when she is facing problems, when she is bored and has someone to go out with.

Seems natural right? According to her family income, her family earns approximately $20k to $40k/year; what do her parents do? They are small town hair stylists..

What I'm trying to say is... my ex is basically "burning" her parents money in art school.

Just think of yourself having an advantage to prove yourself, your ex's, and people around you that you're able to be successful and have a great life! You always hear about people 8itching about everything sucks and they all want a great life...

What are they missing?
Understanding oneself and able to show the skills one has.

You know what I used to think that too. But look you will find someone 10x even 100000000000x times better and you'll realize it. Right now your mind is only concentrated on her but let me key you in on something there are many many other people out there.

I feel you on that but trust me if you let go and open yourself to other people you will find someone better (maybe not better but at least as good if you need to look at it like that).

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Originally Posted by wikedjuggalo

You know what i used to think that too. but look you will find someone 10x even 100000000000x times better and you'll realize it. Right now your mind is only concentrated on her but let me key you in on something there are many many other people out there.

I feel you on that but trust me if you let go and open yourself to other people you will find someone better (maybe not better but atleast as good if you need to look at it like that).

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Yea. Right now that's hard to do. All I ever do is think about her. I try not to but just can't help it. I wonder if she is hurting or if she is thinking of me, or is she hurting as much as I am? A lot of things run through my head.

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Originally Posted by Sweet_Guy23

Yea. Right now thats hard to do. All I ever do is think about her. I try not to but just can't help it. I wonder if she is hurting or if she is thinking of me, or is she hurting as much as I am? Alot of things run through my head.

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No.
No.
And NO.

Your ex pretty much forgot about you. She's just like my ex... going out to find another guy cause she thinks you're incompatible and not a good guy that is suited to be hers.

Yep.

I just want to tell everyone thanks for the advice and allowing me to vent. I am finally able to just let it go and just count it as another experience on road to meeting that special one. Thank you seriously because I had a tremendously hard time letting that one go. Thanks again...