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Originally Posted by Sweet_Guy23

Yea appreciate it. All of you!!! I never joined a community like this before. But you are right. I just hope that if that was her that this won't turn into anything bad.

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I see you took your photo down? Or was that someone else?

That was truly me. I got nervous about doing that and decide to take it down. Maybe that had something to do with "lovegirl" asking me what was my name.

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Originally Posted by Sweet_Guy23

That was truly me. I got nervous about doin that and decide to take it down. Maybe that had something to do with "lovegirl" asking me what was my name.

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That were curious enough to make an account and post good luck with that answer :)

Thanks but I told the truth about everything so if that was her then I spoke the truth.

I just want to tell everyone thanks for the advice and allowing me to vent. I am finally able to just let it go and just count it as another experience on road to meeting that special one. Thank you seriously because I had a tremendously hard time letting that one go. Thanks again...

Yeah man, it didn't happen all of the sudden, this was long and coming. Asking for space in a relationship would've helped you realize this.

My ex-girlfriend cheated on me on two separate occasions. I used to blame her for it, but after reflecting for several months I realized I pushed her to do it. I used her for her car, her money (she'd buy me food and beer), her time at my convenience, and when she turned to me for support I wouldn't give it to her. Of all the reasons I can give, I think the last one is what did it.

However, you woman's in college and most Freshman are single, she probably feels left out. I hate to say it, but relationships in college rarely work, unless the girlfriend in question is about to graduate or are over the age of 22.

We will be here for you any time. Good luck and keep us posted.

Sweet Guy... I have been in your shoes. I was with my ex for 3 years. We fell so hard in love... I never felt that way about any guy. He made me feel safe and secure.

There was some distance between us too (he lived far).

All of the sudden, he fell out of love with me. When I asked him what happened, he said the same thing: "I don't know".

It really isn't fair, and I agree that having closure would help you move on. I wish all relationships have closure. I guess you just have to accept the way she feels, and move on with your life so you can be happy and find love again.

I come to realize that some people don't understand the meaning of the word "love" or don't understand how to make a relationship work. Relationships are hard work but it takes 2 committed people to make it work. Your going have your up and downs, happy and sad, boring and fun time with one another. There going be people of the opposite sex that you find attracted and tempation is everywhere but if your with someone you love you know how to control yourself because love shouldn't cause pain, well only the pleasurable kind. Me and my future husband have our arguments and up and downs but in the end well still together. We live 45 minutes apart, depending on traffic and it's going change soon, but we make it work.

This girl wanted to be free and it's good you let go. Someone else is waiting for you in the future and know love takes time. Good Luck!