My friend, its more important for you to do what you have to, to deal with things, than to work hard to fix things, that you don't understand. Does that make sense?

If you need the time, take it, rather than being in emotional limbo, and dealing with the situation just with emotional feelings, and no realistic, rational thought.

She has to do her part too!!

I get where you are coming from, and believe me... I'm taking my time... I haven't talked to her since about 1230 last night... and I don't plan on talking to her until I get this worked out inside me... if that's another week, then so be it...

I like that in you, as my experienced tells me those who stand up for themselves, don't fall for just anything. Good for you!