Ask Me Help Desk - Am I in the wrong.

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Originally Posted by shaunaleverett

Im 21 and he's 19..

and i know that him talking to a 16 year girl is not right..
but, i would feel like a hippocrit for telling him not to..
because i talk to 16yr olds as well, most of them girls..
but still

I also talk to 16 year girls but I don't hide what my conversations were about. Don't dilute this with a bunch of other nonsense. He hides what he talks about with you. For the love of God you are only 21 which is to young to worry about losing a loser and to old to be playing games with teenagers.

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Originally Posted by LostInHisEyez

Im 18, and the only reason i talk to people younger than me is for this site, and the kids that were in my club that i was in before graduated. how did he meet this girl? and with the texts, i just wouldnt bother any more. i would give him your phone, but cancel the plan and when he asks why, tell him that paying a cellphone thats not even yours doesnt make sense so its his responsibility now. but thats just my anger talking. i would call your phone company and have that little girls number blocked from your house phone and from your cell phone. you can't stop him from calling her outside your house, but none of that in your house! >.<' sorry, something like this just gets me so mad.

He met this girl through Myspace actually, she added him one day.
He accepted, and they would comment back and forth..
Then they sarted texting.

Oh, I already told him today,
That he's going to have to pay this
80 dollar bill because he's had my phone this whole time
For this month, he said that was fine..

But I still am going to have her number blocked.

And trust me, I totally understand.
I was so mad too.. still am

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Originally Posted by chuff

I also talk to 16 year girls but I don't hide what my conversations were about. Don't dilute this with a bunch of other nonsense. He hides what he talks about with you. For the love of God you are only 21 which is to young to worry about losing a loser and to old to be playing games with teenagers.

Yeah, your right..
Its just that.. he's always been so different
From the other boys.. he is more mature then
A lot of my ex bf's.

And I really though that games like
These. Couldn't happen with us...

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Originally Posted by shaunaleverett

yeah, your right..
its just that.. hes always been so different
from the other boys.. he is more mature then
alot of my ex bf's.

and i really though that games like
these. couldnt happen with us...

I'm sure eveyone thinks that.. but you just got to snap out of it.. learn from this,and if you still want to, make it work,if not (which I'm kind of hoping you don't get with him--he's hurt you too much... ) its all up to you. Just know that we're all here to help =)