Maybe it is best you found out when you did many girls end up marrying the cheater and THEN finding out.

Thank god that didn't happen I don't what I would do if I found out like that

Forget about this loser! He is the one who lost out, not you

I know it's easier said than done. But don't EVER in a situation where the guy is cheating (and ecspecially when it's your best friend) ask yourself... "What did I do wrong?" You loved, you trusted. And there's nothing wrong w/ that. We all do it and at some point in time it comes back to bite us in the #ss. But you keep on keepin' on because one day, every hurt will be worth it. You may not realize it now. But there are some bad things that have happened to me by men and I really feel nothing towards those experiences anymore. Yeah, it sucked but I am where I am now because of them. But you don't stand back and look at this situation where he's cheating on you and ask what did I do? It's got nothing to do w/ you. It's got everything to do w/ him and what a pathetic %ss he is for not being man enough to tell you the truth :)

Right right its good to know I'm not the only one who went through this.. well actually that kind of makes me feel better

Dear friend remember when he did this decietful act its like a scar like the one on your body, that you will never be able to forget but only time and trust can heal, also remember if you forgave him and he's sincere about what transpired and he promises he won't do it again, then don't bring it up again but if you can't trust him and that scar re-opens DO NOT TAKE HM BACK AGAIN!!

This thread is from August 2008.