She said to leave her alone. And she was quite adament about it. So leave her alone. Move on with your life.

You do continue to "rake yourself over the coals" and to "beat yourself up" iceeman with over-analyzing things and perhaps continuing to want someone where it really might not be the "right fit" in a number of ways concerning your personalities.

Time to move on...

I've done it many times.

It's a matter of choice!