I agree it was a temporary minor set back just remind yourself how far you HAVE come and how self reliant you are.

As long as the contact she initiates is on a chummy how are you level ignore it, but if for some reason you ever reply to her tell her that you really aren't interested in anything short of her wanting to be back with you since you did get along in your relationship. BUT IF she ever did say she wanted back I would also make it quit clear that you wanted to talk everything over like how serious she intended on it being and means it, etc..

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Originally Posted by brian1231

Ok, so I've been NC since my ex last approached me. It took me a few days, but I was doing much better/stronger. Then 6 months to the day since we BU, she sends me this message on myspace

Hi Brian,

I know you probably don't want to talk to me ever again, but I just want you to know that I'm sorry about everything that has happened...I hope you're doing well.

<Her name>

I havent responded yet (she sent it 2 days ago). Any thoughts?

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Delete it, and forget it. She is just making sure you didn't forget her. That's what NC does. No response is necessary.

I agree with the above, she is testing the waters...

Let it go and ignore it. You might feel a little bad at first, but know your making the right decision... She decided that she wanted to be without you, let her know that's what she's getting...

Went out tonight for a concert. Caught her out of the corner of my eye. I could tell she saw me. Right away she froze, and began to make a v-line for me (I could tell she was happy to see me). I pretended I didn't see her and kept walking.

Later on in the night she came over and tapped me on the arm, I just gave her a blow off hello and turned to my friend to talk

Good for you. You need to keep this strong confident attitude and show her that.