Originally Posted by Ash123
Unfortunately, Love is not always that simple. If it was, yours, or any of the other thousands of posts on here would not exist. Hearts and minds are constantly in conflict.
I know you were on the receiving end of a break-up and didn't like it. And rightfully so.... On the other hand, this person may be the right one for her -- i doubt it -- but it helps to know in life. and since she is not married, she may wish to find out. frankly, i think she is in for a reality check, but sometimes the reality is necessary.
in reality, she will lose her BF and he may lose his GF, but unless these people are all truly in love, what is the point of hanging in there? people date all the time and don't fall 100% in love. the real tragedy is going to the altar not in love.