Id just like to say that men can commit! I was certainly ready but my ex wasn't in the right place to do so, so it can be the other way round as well!

Thanks for the info brkfstatiffs. It does help that I'm trying to stay occupied w/ a lot of things this summer. My sister's getting married in September and I'm trying to help as much as I can with that. I changed my career and I'll be starting at a new school in October. So I'll be moving out of town. Out of state actually, and I'm really looking forward to a new place and meeting new people. I almost see this as a turning point in my life. Kind of like closing one chapter of my life and starting a new one. So there's a lot going on that's helping me forget him. I even started talking with this one guy and he asked me out !

I hear you, I would say just change the network thing or turn off your computer. I know what you mean, you look at his page to make sure nothing new is on it, but why even do that to yourself? Sign up for match.com and look for new men instead!

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Originally Posted by Chameleon24

that's good you've never gone there. It does hurt to see that stuff, as simple as it could be at times, so I don't get why i go there. If i get in that 'curious' mindset i try to occupy my myself with other things. Just shut down the computer and go take a walk or talk to a friend and hope it goes away.
I'm amazed at how good i was with the myspace. He went on that daily and he's got his page open to everyone. It's weird, i've never once felt tempted to go on there since i deleted my account. So i'm not sure what the problem is with facebook. Maybe b/c i tend to go on there at least once a day. Or maybe it's b/c i know there's a 99.9% chance it'll look the same as it did the last time i checked it. Sure, i see all the stuff his gf does, but he never once posted on her wall and maybe changed his status once. But i don't think it makes me mad b/c of what i see there....i get mad at myself b/c i actually bothered to look at it.

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