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Just because you don't get the answers you're looking for doesn't mean we aren't helping. We are not going to tell you what you WANT to hear, if you want that, then go ask for a friends advice. We will give the you the blunt honest truth, it's up to you how you take it and judging by your response, it's not too well.

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I really don't mean to sound that way. I respect and I am not taking your responses the wrong way. Please understand that.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Don't you get the feeling your being trained. Going out with another female, and telling you about it is very extreme, to prove you won't get jealous, instead of reassuring you, and letting you know his conduct is above board.

Sounds more and more to me, your initial reaction was the correct one to begin with, PMS notwithstanding. If you use the no contact to heal, and pull back, I bet you would see his actions differently. Sorry, these are the tactics of a player.

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Wow, I never thought of it that way, he's training me accept his player ways.
It's a shame, I always try and find fault in myself when things go even slightly wrong and he used it against me. I blamed myself first, even though I really felt he was trying to push me to react.

Thank you all for your responses, I truly appreciate them.