Quote:

---

Originally Posted by Kitty1978

I think if some guys or girls feel that the relationship is getting serious and lots of love is comming from the other person, they get scared and walk away ... but its always nice to love and be loved ...

---

I agree with that also in some cases. I know that I have been that person who dished it out. I think its most likely with younger couples

I thought of another one. I'm not sure if it's already been mentioned so apologies if it's already been mentioned.

Let go of the need to constantly be in control.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by Genuineforce

I agree with that also in some cases. I know that I have been that person who dished it out. I think its most likely with younger couples

---

Well, my ex is 35... weird!

Dont compare ur lovestory in movies. Ur's is nothing special.

Manipulation.
Consumption of college work & life.
Inability to spend time with the partner.


My ex:
Insecure.
Changes her mind at the last minute.
Feels she is independent even though she's living UNDER HER PARENTS' ROOF.
Wants to party.

It's easy to be blinded by love. A good way to see the true nature of someone is to see how they act towards others, not only you. They might be the biggest sweetheart to you and you may not actually realize what type of human being they are until they break your heart and your feelings for them slowly fade away. You're not blinded anymore, it's like a veil has been lifted, and you see that it wasn't them just changing... they were always like that. You just never noticed it until now.

I learned a lot from my last relationship. Actually... I found out more about myself then anything else. I realized what it was I truly wanted out of life.

I learned that there is nothing more amazing or exhilarating than been touched by love... And that there is nothing more painful or saddening than being scorned by it...

"When u'r deep inside the woods, all u see are trees."- The sweet life's Kevin Uy

Watch for the red flags through their nice guy con artist style.

I learned that you cannot put 100 trust in people. Because when I becamoe so sure that nothing could go wrong, that when my relationship fell apart... don't put all your card on the table... and finally, like tal said...

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by gg23

i learned that you cannot put 100 trust in people. because when i becamoe so sure that nothing could go wrong, that when my relationship fell apart...don't put all ur card on the table....and finally, like tal said....

---

I learned that lesson too.

Isn't that true! I always held back for some reason, because I'm the one who always tell my friend don't ever let a girl know how much they mean to you! Then she slowly made her way in my heart and when I open my heart and welcomed her in, after almost two years because I thought she d earned my trust, and thinking that I know her that's when she starts acting funny and treating me as a joke... someone who could not go by without talking to me for two days!! boy did it hurt!! I felt so stupid... oh well live and learn right?. I think if I didn't get the lesson ingrained in my soul this time it will... hahah... live another day!! NC is working fine now... all of a sudden I was happy by by being!!