Ask Me Help Desk - Should I wait?

Thanks she has just gone off msn and I think that is the end. She didn't have the decency to tell me in person. The only thing I want now is to hold her in my arms and kiss her head like I used to. Its going to kill me

I know, sweetie. I am so sorry. But, you will make it through this. It really sucks I know, but you will get through this.

Thanks for all of your help I would like to stay in touch because you are a good set of people.

I'm just devastated because I have a lot of good memories I know I am not going to get with somebody else in the future. I'm sorry for asking so many questions because this is part of life and I should deal with it. But god it's hard

I know its hard at first but sweetheart it will get easier everyday! Just remember you are a good person and I hope the best for you! Your welcome!

Sorry to be a burden but I need to say this. The thing I am going to hate the most is seeing her happy with somebody else, she promised me she isn't looking for somebody else but I know it is going to come. I am now aware that I have problems with being too protective and jealous, this caused most of the arguments. I am going to change for myself now. It is going to hurt when another boy is in my place. I'm sorry but I need somebody to talk to. Thanks

Do any of you guys have msn messenger, it would be useful to talk

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sorry to be a burden but i need to say this. the thing i am going to hate the most is seeing her happy with somebody else, she promised me she isn't looking for somebody else but i know it is going to come. i am now aware that i have problems with being too protective and jealous, this caused most of the arguments. i am going to change for myself now. it is going to hurt when another boy is in my place. im sorry but i need somebody to talk to. thanks

You are not a burdon at all. I know that is a hard thing to handle, we all feel this way, but, you must try to not think about that, for your own good, and own happiness. It will serve you well.

I know you have memories of her that are hard to forget, but you know what? When you meet someone else, you will have brand new memories! And believe me you will meet someone new, but first, you need to really heal from this, and get yourself in a place mentally where you will be less jealous. Don't beat yourself up though sweetie. We all get jealous, the trick is to not let it run out of control, which I know you won't do, and if by any chance you really did in the past, you know not to for the future.

Thanks I'm trying but time seems to go slow lol

I've decided not to talk to her again to save the pain, she doesn't seem bothered which makes me think that she had this planned :(

Hey danny love. Its lucie x ino things are hard for you and our alys but you got to stay strong. The only person who is worth your tears is the one who won't make you cry. So give her some time and I'm sure she will come round.

I agree. Let your heart be your guide. However, be prepared for anything and don't get your expectations up too high.

It will be hard to see her with someone else but eventually you will know she is the one missing out on you! This is a good learning experience for you and you now the next girlfriend you have you won't do the same things that you did this time! It will make you a better person in the end sweeheart! Anytime you want to talk let me know!:)

Fanks but I just feel sick all of the time, I can't eat or sleep. I'm worried I might not get through.

This is a sudden shock for me that I didn't really expect, I just wish I had her back.

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Originally Posted by doots08

iv decided not to talk 2 her again to save the pain, she doesn't seem bothered which makes me think that she had this planned :(

Your right as usually we are the last to know about a break up, and they have a head start on getting over this emotionally. Stay busy, and you'll feel better with time and actually move on. Click on the links in my signature for some great sites that will help you through this.