Women (and men!) are very good at distracting us from the real issue, and get what they want. Works for a while, but comes back to bite us in the a$$, big time. Working together to resolve issues to the benefit of both partners is the only way to go. My wife would never try to persuade me with cuddles, and kisses, as that would pizz me off to no end. But over time we compromise, I get something, and she gets something, and its settled. Talking, and listening, is the foundation for trust and fair play in a relationship. Trust me when I say that one partner not getting anything, and giving in every time breeds a very deep RESENTMENT, that grows over time. We men must be firm in our actions, no matter she is naked, and willing to please. NO, is not a bad word. Compromise is healthy.Quote:
Again, she claimed I didn't love her and we broke up for like a day and once I started getting my stuff packed up, she caved and gave me a huge kiss and started being all cuddly and I caved. (only added stress later on)
