Ask Me Help Desk - I'm dying inside.

You have been given some very good advice, and shouldn't take the burden of someone else's criminal behavior on yourself. He will get his. Just be there for your friend, and support her through this. She may take a lot of negative things out on you, but let her vent those feelings, and never take it person. Support and patience is what she needs to recover, and I wish you luck, and strength.

I'm just checking in to see how things are going for you and her, Tickford.

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Originally Posted by Tickford

Hello,

I'm new to this board, and I hope that somebody out there can help me.

2 days ago, a girl who only on that day we finally came clean and admitted our feelings for each other, was raped by her housemate.

It happened just after I had left....She's in so much pain, I saw her yesterday before the police came. she called me after it happened, i didn't hear the phone ring. she walked all night coz she could not remember where my place was. It was out of jealousy that it happened, he couldn't handle seeing her with a man, although she wanted nothing to do with him..i feel like i contributed to it somehow because if i never went to see her maybe it would never have happened.

I'm in so much pain for her, and I'm hurting so badly...I don't know what to do.

Tickford, I hope you and your friend are feeling better and not hurting so badly. Hope to hear from you soon for an update. We are all here for you and for her. Until Later Then!

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Originally Posted by Tickford

Hello,

I'm new to this board, and I hope that somebody out there can help me.

2 days ago, a girl who only on that day we finally came clean and admitted our feelings for each other, was raped by her housemate.

It happened just after I had left....She's in so much pain, I saw her yesterday before the police came. she called me after it happened, i didn't hear the phone ring. she walked all night coz she could not remember where my place was. It was out of jealousy that it happened, he couldn't handle seeing her with a man, although she wanted nothing to do with him..i feel like i contributed to it somehow because if i never went to see her maybe it would never have happened.

I'm in so much pain for her, and I'm hurting so badly...I don't know what to do.

Maybe you should tell her how you feel. You can't change what happened to her. But maybe you can help her to cope with it.