All right about going back with her... give it a try..
But to me.. I think I wouldn't go back.. even though I am a girl.. im just saying... if I were to be in this situation..
If she wants to be with someone who mistreats her.. that's her problem..
Your someone... who wants someone seriouss aboutt this realtionshipp and would love you...

Make wise decisionss..
Think about the negatives and the positives..
Is it right or wrong..
Where would it lead me...

Think before you make a move...

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Originally Posted by ladieedee21

Make wise decisionss..
think about the negatives and the positives..
is it right or wrong..
where would it lead me...

think before you make a move....

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We're great together. She's perfect for me but I don't think I need all this crap. I might give her another chance; it's more than she ever gave me.

If you think your great together.. alright...
And yes a guy doesn't wantt this shyt going oon...
And even when tomrrow comes and she wants 2 still be with you..
Your choicess... just be wisee... about itt...

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Originally Posted by ladieedee21

If you think your great together..alright...
and yes a guy doesnt wantt this shyt going oon...
and even when tomrrow comes and she wants 2 still be with you..
your choicess....just be wisee...about itt...

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Well she gave me some line about wanting to be with me but being scared that she would hurt me. I think that she thinks she's protecting me by hurting me now rather than later. What I would like her to understand is that she doesn't have to hurt me at all. My friends all think I should do what I can to stay with her. Her friends think I'm good for her. It's her turn to do some of the work in this.

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It's her turn to do some of the work in this.

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Now your using your common sense. Keep it coming.

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Now your using your common sense. Keep it coming.

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Yeah man. If our relationship has to end like this then she's not even really the person I fell in love with. She's too strong and smart to leave me in this way. I hope she realizes that she deserves the best, but for now the best isn't coming from me.

Yupp..
Now it is her turnnn...
Your doing goodd.. and keep thinking wise..
!good luckkk..

Try to have a deep conversation with her.. experssing your feelingss.. and what you think.. and get her to talk too... aightyy..
Keep everything reall...

If she said that she'll call me tomorrow after I get off work(9:30) should I just wait for her to call, or is it okay if I call her on the way home from work? I like to go out on Sunday nights and I would rather talk to her face to face, but I don't want to miss the bar because I'm waiting for her to call. Or should I just go out like I normally do whether she calls me or not, and we can talk about us when I'm ready?

You are not ready now to talk with her?

And did she exactlyy say, "i will call you tomorrow after you get off of work"??

Just go out and do your thing don't wait on her call, plus it would be better if she called you while you were out rather than she call you while your waiting on her. Makes you look better plus she might even call you on time.

If she said those words, that she is going to call you..
Then you could go out and enjoy until she calls... you answer and talkk..

I don't see anything to talk about. If its not about kicking the ex to the curb, and showing some love, Forget the rest of the conversation. No wonder she has the balls to run that weak story on you. She knows it works. Sorry ladies, no disrespect, but the time for talk, and feelings is over.

Yahh "talaniman" nothing offended
But "grbennett" wants her... so don't you think they got to talkk..
I mean.. to mee.. I think he should forget her..
But he wants her.. so how they going to fixx itt..
By her calling himm up..

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but "grbennett" wants her... so don't you think they got to talkk..

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NO! There has been enough talk, and we still have no progress. What good is more talk when she ain't listening. I mean, how many times do you run head first into a brick wall before you figure out which one is harder? Maybe he can't control her, or this so called relationship, he can control himself.

The less you do the more power you have.

If she loves you. The absence of you is the only card you have left - and that can only be achieved by staying away. Frankly, she is not in a position to love you anyway after all she has been through... the white knight routine only works when she wants it to...

To "talaniman"
"NO! There has been enough talk, and we still have no progress"

Life is full of issuess... and problemss..
Eevryonee goes through it and faces it
... he said he lovess her... iff he wantss herr and this is the first time this happens.. aight thenn... he wants to give her a chance.. okayy... we have to see with the phone call tomorrow... yess... he wants to see what she has to sayy... if the phone call gets bad... den dump her... like I told you... even though I'm a gurll.. if this was my stuiation.. I would dump the chick.. but he wants to give her a chance.. and if that's it.. then its his choice...
I believe he should get over her.. and move on and find someone who is reall...
Waste of timee... of this one chick... she shouldd groww upp...

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... if the phone call gets bad... den dump her... like I told you...

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Sometimes I forget the best lesson are learned by going through them. Thanks for reminding me.

Exactlyy.. "talaniman" but "grbennett" wantss to see what she has to say.. so the phone call he is going to do it... you may not wantt to... but "grbennett" wants the girl.. even though we are telling him to dump her..