Most times a woman who has anger issues are not satified with her life. She is angry at something or someone from the past or even present. She need to see a councelor. That behaviour would damage your relationship and eventual makes things worst for u.

She has no reason to take out a restraining order on you... What did you do? Hmmm. :confused: Well to be honest... you are young and you still have lalot ahead of u... let that confused girl go and move on. Eventually she would see that no one is going to tolerate that type of behavior from her... n she is going to be alone

That mite be her turning point of change. And you should not let a girl drag you along because you in love... U are a person as much as they are. You can't live your life waiting till they figure out there problem.

Go enjoy life.:)

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Originally Posted by bcoberly

You maybe she wasn't the best thing in my life and no maybe it was dysfunctional, but I was with her almost every single day for three years. For me to just forget about her and to move on would be to say for me to erase the last three years of my life. I can't do that I'm sorry. She was actively involved in everything I did during those times. She went to every single show I play with my band live, was there for work events, hung out with my friends who she got along with with and with family as well. It has created a giant black hole in my life. I tried to remember how I was when I was single and to be honest I hated it. I hope there is someway I can be independant in the future.

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Nobody's asking you to forget about the past three years. Just forget about having a healthy future with her when she's being like this. On a side note, being with someone nearly everyday for that long isn't a good thing. Because now you are associating her with your entire life during that time. A significant other should be a part of your life, compliment your life, not BE your life.

Thanks liar 2! I've made a joke after every time we break up... which is mean, but basically I said that I'd like to meet whoever her new boyfriend is in the future. I'd shake his hand, because she is tough to handle. You have to really get her to even last months with her. Especially now after she claims I've given her all this baggage. It doesn't mean she's a bad person though, It just means she has internal issues, which is human. The restraining order thing shoke me up quite a bit because only thing I did was call her at work two days later to ask for my scholling papers back and then three weeks later I sent her a card in the mail that said I was sorry being a jerk the night we broke up and that she always will be in my heart. A really short note that said nothing threatening or even that I wanted to get back with her. Then she tells her best friend that all the judges would agree with her that, that was harassment. Well I'm still wating for that restraining order it's been a week now... the only problems I had mentally in the relationship was that I had panic disorder which took about a year to recover from, but I actually went to therapy for that unlike herself. In the beginning she told me she had never gotten over the death of her father when she was 7. I told her maybe she should see a grief conselor, which by the way is what she is trying to go to school for... she never did and I think the result of not dealing with that all these years makes her depressed or bipolar... what do you think?

I think you just need to stay away from her... I really think that she must be an amazing person for you to love her that much... but she has serious issues that could tarnish your repetition... Don't let that woman put you tru that.

I know love blinds people for using their correct judgment, but its not like this girl is willing to change he behavior... she would not even do something to improve that so she could relate to others differently...

N further more... SHE WANTS U OUT HER LIFE... U sound too good of a person... Maybe we should hook up?? Lol kidding...

Eventually she would regret treating you that way because there are not much guys who love a woman so much to apologise to them. Some guys these days are heartless... n they would be the ones treating her like t... Count yuh lucky stars!! :) you are going to get a woman who is compatible to u... there is someone out there for everyone hunny.

Lol that was quite a response Liar2! I don't really consider myself a "good" guy, I would just say I have a calm temperament. I was a jerk to her a lot before we broke it off the first time because I didn't take the relationship that seriously at the time, but I later changed my attitude the second go-around, but she remained the same. I really still love and I always will. I just didn't want to be the guy who begged for her forgiveness because I knew that would make me pathetic and I just like playing the part of being reasonable. I think that's because I'm a Libra and I'm balanced and peaceful. Everyday has been getting better, except for the mornings... blah. I really hope I find someone that I find long lasting love with... it seems like unlikely at this point because I think every girl I see is boring and unattractive in place of my ex... oh well...