Wha-Wha happened?? Where did the love go? Did it leave with the trust, or is that narrowminded?

Tal... You're playing with fire my friend, but I think we angered the goddesses when we brought up NC... I don't think some people like hearing that

Love without trust, is like calling a boil a beauty mark.

Talaniman I'm with you!! My Fiancée never checks my cell phone either!! She must really hate me!! I go out she never questions who I was with. She doesn't call me fifty times when I am out to make sure I am with who I am supposed to be with. She doesn't even bother going through my pockets if she happens to my laundry cause if she did I wouldn't keep finding Receipts of mine in the washing machine. I'm telling you man we need to get some women who care enough not to TRUST US!!

Ah! She finally found a number she didn't know, she ordered a pizza, and she wants me to pay the guy when he delivers! The gall of it all. Insult to injury, she's going NC, until the kids get home! Should I go or stay?

Yes I am having a great time with this, but seriously, think about what you do, and how it looks not only to others, but the one your with. Now I'm going to snoop through her purse, and do what she is incapable of, showing the love!

Its not that I don't love him, I do. But when you are calling a number that he clams not to know more then 10 time with at work for 10 hours. Then what is a girl to think. I don't go though his things. When I wash close I empty pockets, but that is all. We only have one perpay cellphone so we both have to shair. That is how I found out. Should I have just left it alone, or looked forther...
If you are saying that I have trust problums maybe you should look at the other question that I posted. That should help you understand.

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BROCKSGIRL86 disagrees: no the thing is that he was calling her everyday and texting that number like 10 time wile he was at work. he never called or texted that number wile at home.

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I hope you can understand how this changes the whole thread, and would have been useful to know from the start, as you led us to believe there was only a missed call.

Well I'm sorry. I thought that I put that in there, but after reading what you guys said, then my question again I found out that I didn't add that last little part. Once again I'm sorry

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a little info about us, we got married April2007, I'm 21 he is 23, I'm a little over 300lbs and he is like 220. He is 6'3 and I'm 5'10. We met online on eharmaney around march2006.

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I see you met, and married in a year, so I can only guess, that your still getting to know each other, and the honeymoon period is over. Reality says you have not yet gotten to the point of knowing how to talk, and listen, to each other, and are still finding things out. I would advise you to slowly develop the communications, and get on the same page of knowing each other. Be patient as this is a long slow process that there are no shortcuts to. As long as you both are willing to work together, there is a good chance of resolving any issues you have. Don't assume anything, and never expect he can read your mind, and try and talk calmly, when you have questions or concerns. Good Luck.