Never sweat the competition. Just be yourself, and do your thing with confidence. You are not his competition, you're the MAN. Act like it, and keep the head up.

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Originally Posted by Shaballo

I have having trouble with communication, she says that it is hard to talk to me and i am trying to figure out a way to change that. we know a lot about each other, but i sometime can't think of anything say. Then there a loooooonnnnnggggg silence what are good topics that will keep the conversation going?

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Well thanks for all of your input, we are experiencing things that we haven't before. We have become more open with each other, and I am sure that this is just one more step to a greater and more personal relationship. As it turns out she did tell this guy to step aside. Although they are still friends. Through the past 3 weeks I have learned more about myself than I could have possibly imagined. I am now going to a phyc doctor for some help about my dep. I am not scared anymore.