Yeah I slipped and call her today to tell her good luck on her job interview... then she said "did u cheat on me" and I said no because I didn't. And she said, whatever it doesn't even mater anymore you still lied...

So I told her "well im just wishing u good like nothing more, nothing less. I'll talk to you later I guess"


And she ended with "Yup"

Why? Why would you call? Leave it alone. If you do not. You deserve the abuse you get from her.

Blue... For whatever reason you are helping her abuse you. Contacting her and not pressing charges on her, just told her hey I'm willing to be your "punching bag" Yeah, you could keep hanging with her and fight back you could probably kick her a$$. BUt then you would be just as bad as she is. What if she goes crazy when your sleeping or decides to use a car,gun as her choice of weapon next time. Just because you are a man does not make you immune from domestic violence nor does it mean that you have to be tough and accept it. Read these links you will find your not alone.men and domestic violence
MenWeb-Domestic violence.
835,000 battered men each year, silent too Long...

This guy obviously cares more about love then the abusing part of the relationship and we find that A LOT in couples.

You are such a glutten for punishment and abuse. I would just disappear, and save my pockets, and my lips, any more torture.

Take Tal's advice. I can't believe that you called her. This is exactly what happens time and time again in abusive relationships.

It's your choice, if you can accept that she's an abuser and you want to be in this kind of relationship then there's nothing we can do about it.

If you ever need to talk we'll be here.

Take care.

Hey Tal,

I meant that it's apparent that he isn't taking anyone's advice on this site. After reading some posts that he made I can clearly see that he cares more about loving the girl then her abusing him.

Ex: After posting this question and getting some responses, the OP then says that he called the girl and tried to work things out when everyone was telling him to leave the crazy woman in the first place.

Catch my drift?

I'm not saying it's right but that's how it seems.

I should have made my agreement clear, as in abuse, the victims think there in love, but they don't even love themselves. That's why they stay. Sorry 'bout that.

That's all right!

So you're saying that it's abuse to yourself when when you don't love yourself?

I hope that's what you're saying lol!

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So you're saying that it's abuse to yourself when when you don't love yourself?

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I think that people who love themselves, are not going to take that kind of treatment. Ain't that much love in the world!

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Originally Posted by talaniman

I think that people who love themselves, are not going to take that kind of treatment. Ain't that much love in the world!

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You got that right for sure!