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  • Mar 9, 2008, 10:36 PM
    inthebox
    I'll have to modify my position.

    How many parents instantly fell in love when they first saw their child / children the moment it was born?
  • Mar 9, 2008, 11:19 PM
    jeffatl
    Anyone said "lust" at first sight yet?


    "can there be hate at first sight? maybe for bigots and racists, but people who aren't as judgmental wont hate someone at first sight..."

    If you are saying there IS love at first sight, you would have to be WAY MORE judgmental to say you love them just from looking at them. A rasist hates for a color, that's not a judgment. If you say "I love you" to someone, you KNOW them inside and out, you don't have to know someone to hate them.

    For TRUE LOVE, no way at first sight... lust.
  • Mar 10, 2008, 07:08 PM
    ISneezeFunny
    I believe in love at first sight... I also believe in:

    Awkwardness at second sight
    Dislike @ third
    Disregard @ fourth
    Hate @ fifth...

    ... and walking away at 6th.

    Next? New love.
  • Mar 10, 2008, 07:29 PM
    Delow84
    I believe in the possibility of love at first sight. Though other than in a movie I have yet to see it happen. I got to know my ex for 4 years before seeing her. First time I laid eyes on her I was in love.

    But just meeting someone and being able to just click in a single look. I'd like to hope it is possible for my sake lol.

    Normally just lust though.
  • Apr 7, 2008, 08:15 AM
    abi123
    Their is such thing as lust at first sight not love!
    You could see someone and stay you ant thm but you can't say you love them!
    Love takes time and you need to know the person!

    So I would say no I don't believe in love at first sight
  • Aug 1, 2008, 06:10 AM
    wonderlily
    YES I DO. Im even in it now. Always believe, nothing is impossible.
  • Aug 4, 2008, 10:07 PM
    jinie1977
    Yes, but only after I expirience it. A few months after a horrible brake up. The last thing in my mind was dating. Fr. The moment I saw. It wasn't his looks or clothing. It was like a magnet pulling me. Its hard to explain.
  • Aug 4, 2008, 10:14 PM
    LostInHisEyez
    I can't say that I really believe in love at first sight.. when I first laid eyes on my ex, three years ago, I wouldve never thought anything by it, just by looking at him. I just looked into his green eyes and just smiled. After talking to him maybe twenty minutes , I was blown away, I stared into his great amazing green eyes, and we were together since then, TILL just recently, lol, but its tough. Maybe its love at first talk? But not sight.
  • Aug 4, 2008, 10:17 PM
    ISneezeFunny
    Love... takes time. Effort. Communication. Trust. Working through obstacles together.

    ... that doesn't happen when you run into them at the grocery store in the cereal aisle.

    Sorry if I'm a cynic, but... I believe that one can actually fall in love with someone's looks... scent... body chemistry... perhaps even their posture, the way they carry themselves, their taste, etc.

    ... but... that's... about... it.

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