Originally Posted by talaniman
No matter what happens, always forgive yourself, and then move on. I understand amends, as long as your honest with yourself, and willing to accept the consequences. I understand falling off the wagon, as long as you get back on. Making amends is a major step to healing, but honestly from what I have read about you, you owe him nothing. Even as you have explained it here, I see no debt to him, at all. Hope you have forgiven the most important one in the equation, and thats you!
