Homegirl brings up a good point, as she may be waiting for you to set YOUR boundaries. Don't disappoint her.

Fear is not healthy.

Now that you know you are not crazy - fear not.

Speak your mind and tell her why you need a compromise. If she gets mad or does not listen - you will need to stand strong - and calmly explain how it can work.

Or get to counseling...

Peace

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No compromise, tell her straight up, you ain't going for some strange man around your kids, and absolutely no visiting strange single men, anywhere.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

No compromise, tell her straight up, you ain't going for some strange man around your kids, and absolutely no visiting strange single men, anywhere.

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Isn't that the truth.
This man has no respect for the fact that this woman is married. I would not have him around my children under any circumstances